Frequently Asked Questions

What happens at mediation?

The mediator will arrange an initial face to face or video meeting with both of you separately to discuss the issues, consider your process options and to see if mediation is suitable for you. This is called a Mediation Information and Assessment meeting (MIAM). The mediator is impartial so will manage the discussions and ensure you can both speak freely and openly in calm surroundings. They will help you explore options providing legal, financial, and general information (but not advice). If you both want to proceed, then mediation can start.

What do mediation meetings typically involve?

Meetings typically involve:

One mediator: Usually, one mediator works with both of you in joint meetings. Occasionally, a second mediator may join if needed or if requested by you.
Meeting setup: You choose to meet together, or in separate rooms if preferred. You can also bring someone with you, such as a solicitor or supportive person if agreed in advance.
Location flexibility: Meetings can be held online or face-to-face as you wish.

If a consensus is reached, a Memorandum of Understanding will be prepared together with an open summary of financial information (where appropriate).

What are the costs of mediation

Fee structure: Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM), £150 plus VAT.
Mediation, £145 plus VAT, per person per hour.
Estimated total: For three sessions, a Memorandum of Understanding, and a financial summary, the cost is around £1,000–£1,250 per person, plus VAT- a fraction of the cost of going to court.
Voucher scheme: A £500 voucher may be available for cases involving child arrangements.

Is mediation better than court?

Mediation allows you to make informed decisions about your future without a court order being imposed. It is:

  • Faster and less costly than court or long communications through solicitors.
  • Conflict-reducing: Mediation promotes better communication and reduces tension.
  • A good way of achieving a resolution: You each have an equal say, and there is no judgment involved. You are empowered to make decisions that are best for your family, rather than have decisions imposed upon you by the court.

Note: Mediation may not be suitable if there are issues of domestic abuse, child protection concerns, or lack of openness from either party.

Is a solicitor required for family mediation?

It is recommended that you take legal advice duringthe process. You should certainly do so when you reach an overall solution to check that you remain satisfied with the proposals. These can then be converted into a legally binding court order.

Is family mediation worth It?

Yes! Mediation is often faster, less stressful, and more cost-effective than court proceedings. It also allows you to maintain control over decisions that affect your family.

How do I prepare for family mediation in the UK?

To prepare, gather any relevant documents (e.g., financial records) and think about your priorities and possible compromises. Our mediator can provide further guidance to help you make the most of each session.

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